Today I was reading about a lady (beautiful actress) who was in love with a married athlete who was wanting and loving her and yet would not leave his wife. She found herself for six years in a tunnel of darkness and sadness. In the end she was on location in South America filming and she fell down a huge hill and found herself dangling off a cliff. She was at a cross roads in life physically and spiritually!
QUOTE: ANY DAY THAT ENDS UP WITH YOU DANGLING OFF A SIDE OF A MOUNTAIN OR HANGING BY A SLENDER PSYCHIC THREAD SHOULD PROMPT THE VERY VALID QUESTION "HOW THE BLOODY HELL DID I GET HERE"?
Sitting there in the dark on the side of this mountain waiting for rescue she made a choice to let go (Of the bad relationship)! Simply let go and it would be over. She did get rescued and she did go home and break it completely off with this lover man and she did carry on to have a successful life. I bet she cried many days and got angry or maybe not ...Only God knows and is there when we are at this point of surrender.
It takes courage to live a good life and to live the life that is meant for us! Its easy to sink to behaviors that seem to lesson the pain. Food Drink Sex (Or what ever floats your boat in easing pain) and negative emotions all may help for a season of grief but the key word is SEASON. meaning that its a short time until the next season.
For goodness sakes pick yourself up and STOP now. Its done! Dont feel guilty it may have been just what you needed to grieve. ITS OK!
If you are in the winter season of life I want to remind you that its just a season and that spring is on its way. Full of new growth and brilliant colors and warm days and beautiful sunsets.. Butterflys...:) Don't choose to stay in the winter of your life.
Have the courage to let go and see where this wonderful life takes you!
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