Let Them Go!

My Pastor said this last Sunday and got it from a article. It's worth sharing!

There are people who can walk away from you
LISTEN!!.. When people can walk away from you: LET THEM WALK!!

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

I'm not religious but even the bible said that, "they went away from us so that it might be made known that they were not FOR US. For had they been WITH us, no doubt they would have CONTINUED with us."

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is OVER. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. I've got the gift of good-bye. It is a GIFT, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever the universe means for me to have it will GIVE it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

And HOW do you do that...???

let them go!!

Hang On!

Today I was reading about a lady (beautiful actress) who was in love with a married athlete who was wanting and loving her and yet would not leave his wife. She found herself for six years in a tunnel of darkness and sadness. In the end she was on location in South America filming and she fell down a huge hill and found herself dangling off a cliff. She was at a cross roads in life physically and spiritually!

QUOTE: ANY DAY THAT ENDS UP WITH YOU DANGLING OFF A SIDE OF A MOUNTAIN OR HANGING BY A SLENDER PSYCHIC THREAD SHOULD PROMPT THE VERY VALID QUESTION "HOW THE BLOODY HELL DID I GET HERE"?

Sitting there in the dark on the side of this mountain waiting for rescue she made a choice to let go (Of the bad relationship)! Simply let go and it would be over. She did get rescued and she did go home and break it completely off with this lover man and she did carry on to have a successful life. I bet she cried many days and got angry or maybe not ...Only God knows and is there when we are at this point of surrender.

It takes courage to live a good life and to live the life that is meant for us! Its easy to sink to behaviors that seem to lesson the pain. Food Drink Sex (Or what ever floats your boat in easing pain) and negative emotions all may help for a season of grief but the key word is SEASON. meaning that its a short time until the next season.

For goodness sakes pick yourself up and STOP now. Its done! Dont feel guilty it may have been just what you needed to grieve. ITS OK!

If you are in the winter season of life I want to remind you that its just a season and that spring is on its way. Full of new growth and brilliant colors and warm days and beautiful sunsets.. Butterflys...:) Don't choose to stay in the winter of your life.

Have the courage to let go and see where this wonderful life takes you!

Happy Birthday / Wilderness / Thursdays!

Today is my mentors Birthday. Happy Birthday Michael! Have a wonderful Day! Thank you for all you do for me and everyone that you help. You are awesome......

Every Thursday night at 6:55 I call up a 700 number on my phone for my weekly conference call. I have been doing this for a year now and it has literary transformed and changed my life in a dramatic way. My mentor Michael does these calls for a dynamic company that sells health care.

How has this helped me? Well first off I healed from a broken marriage and divorce on these calls and my work with Michael. LISTENING TO HIM AND DOING IT. Second I lost 45 lbs last year (A total of 50) and second and most important I have learned that I actually like Cheryl. She is super duper great. I also am a positive strong independent women now and happy and have a new job and looking forward to a grand future! I am proud of myself because for the first time in my life I have not quit.

This last year has been amazing for me and not at all easy work. My mentor along with Gods guidance has had me in a place of "Wilderness" and many of us are sent there at least one time in our lives. I was reading today that when we are sent in our wilderness its divine detour to bring us home to ourselves after a lifetime of running away! Powerful.....We can cry and yell and get mad in the wilderness yet no one hears us except the ones who sent us there. That is good. Its necessary! The wilderness is tough love and we were sent here for a special destiny and for one reason and one reason only "WOMEN FIND THYSELF" I learned to be happy and positive in my wilderness. I am still in my wilderness and can see im about to leave here soon! I will miss it and can create mini wildernesses in my life from now on to self reflect!

I want to highlight some of Thursday nights quotes from Michael on here to let you know what I learn that is so valuable:

The best way to predict your future is to create it
Be disciplined and self controlled at all times
Stay in the "positive zone" all day long.
Wake up happy and positive
Next December where will I be? In a good place or right here where I am not moving?
Be positive about my future
Eat marshmallows often
I have a choice and its up to me
Use the 1% rule (fighter jets can not even be 1% off or they crash, I can not be 1% off or I crash)
Have a vision of your future..see it
I am a strong brave responsible lady
My job is to say NO to negative thoughts and actions.
I will not settle for less then great
Remove the word CANT
Get over it!!!
Life is good
There is joy in this life
Do not ever stop
Rid yourself of naysayers
When you go negative "STOP IT NOW"
I have the power to impact my outcome
I have seen my future and it is good
Go get um!